Yesterday was my FIRST time and FIRST day in blog, pretty nervous and not sure if am doing wrong. Can't trust people anyway, but I guess is ok since we are using fictitious name and you guys would not know who am I. Well, at least there is a SPACE to release.
A mixture of reaction / advice received from yesterday released article : Is this consider un-faithful ? - - Thanks to all who cares.
Well, there is no right or wrong answer, nor there is any straight forward solution. (how I wish !!)
Couple of weeks ago, an old friend (pretty 'old', about 55 years old) send this : Life is short. Do what you have to do and what you can do. Most important is : be happy with yourself.
Gosh, this send me into deep thots.............. I never happy with myself, not because of wealth / health / career ......... but marriage and the surrounding people within the family circle of in-law side, that make me very unhappy. The pressure is cooked over period of 8-9 years.
There is a saying : when you get married, you not only married to the woman you so selected, but her entire family. Situation is bad if you are a foreigner to this country (I am) and staying under 1 roof. Worst, if the in-law are so call " more wealthier" and got more money to burn, and doing businesses, where conflict of interest occured repeatedly.
Can I do what I have to do and be happy ?
I have no answer to this, YET.